‘Hello again, my dear wife – it’s been a long 20 years…’

The story of how a Zimbabwean family reunited – after nearly two decades apart. Pythias Makonese tells his story.

It is not easy to sustain a marriage when the husband and wife live thousands of miles apart for almost two decades.

A lot marriages would collapsed under these circumstances. Somehow – thanks to the patience of my wife, Nomia, and the help of the Leicester branch of the British Red Cross – we managed to not only keep strong but to re-unite. This is our story.

Nomia Vongai Makonese, 58, a mother of five children landed at Heathrow airport, accompanied by her youngest daughter, Florence, 22, on December 5, 2020. I was there to meet them. At long last, we were together.

This is a story that goes back a long way.

After my teaching qualification, I started work as a teacher in 1978 at a primary school and taught for seven years before I got married. I married Nomia in a Civil Court at Mvuma, Zimbabwe in May 1985. We settled down and raised five children – one boy and four girls.

For 17 years, we lived together and looked after our family. I worked as a teacher. Life was good.

In 1980, there was a change of government in our country as the Zimbabwe African National Union (ZANU) took over from Rhodesian Front (R.F.) headed by Ian Douglas Smith.  

An opposition political party, Movement for Democratic Change, was formed in 1999 led by Morgen Tsvangirai. Most teachers were aligned to the opposition party and were considered enemies of the then-ruling ZANU. This is allowed in England. It’s the nature of politics in a democracy. It wasn’t in my home country.

Many teachers became political victims. The pressure was so great I felt I had to leave my job, my home, family and move to England. This was 2002 and I had been accused of supporting the MDC when I invited the local parliament (MDC) to an annual general meeting of a School Development Association. 

My story for fear of political persecution was not believed by the Home Office when I applied for refugee protection in the United Kingdom. It took 10 years for the UK to believe me, when I finally won my appeal case.

When I gained refuge protection, I used my news status to try to bring about a family reunion – to bring over my wife and my youngest daughter.

This was refused in 2018. But I was determined and appealed again. This time, I was successful.

Still, it took a whole year – red tape, forms, officials – before we could get the travel documents.

The date was set. April 4, 2020. They were all set to board the plane – and the flight was cancelled because of the COVID pandemic.

The reunion was put back another eight months.

It was the end of a tough chapter for Nomia, raising the couple’s children single-handedly.

“I was just thrilled to meet my husband,” she said. ” I last met him in October 2002 back in Zimbabwe.”

Its as also a joyous day for Florence. “I was only four year old when my father left me and had only a faint idea on how he looks,” she said. “I am very happy to meet him and will be the happiest child on earth to stay with him unlike in the past when I used to talk to him over the phone.”

Florence is now 22, and aims to further her education, and hopes her siblings can join her one day.

It’s been a long and difficult process to get this far. But the lesson here is that no matter how tough it has been, people want to be with the ones they love the most.

If you have that – and the help of the Leicester branch of the Rad Cross – then anything is possible.

OPINION: Mass hysteria over coronavirus does more harm than good

OPINION by Ben Sanderson

What a year.

2020 began as a year of certainty in the UK over the fate of Brexit and curious uncertainty over the destiny of the country, but by mid-March the situation worldwide has taken over the news and it is one none could have predicted.

The coronavirus (or COVID-19, to give it its scientific name), a flu-like virus sweeping Earth, has reached Europe and the UK, with over 1,500 cases and over 50 deaths in the UK*, and Europe as a whole has come to a standstill.

The endless stories from the national press (every newspaper and news website available) has coronavirus stories galore. My brother visited the BBC News website to find the top seventeen stories were all related to the coronavirus.

Seventeen.

We never have had such over-the-top coverage of any topic in the news in my lifetime, not the parliamentary crisis over Brexit, nor the Olympics in London, nor the Syrian Civil War.

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Image courtesy of US National Park Service: The coronavirus

This has affected all aspects of life in the UK, with panic buying being the most obvious example. Aldi and Tesco are just two supermarket chains finding themselves bereft of toilet roll, flour or eggs to sell.

People are buying all sorts of things they would not normally need en masse. There have been stories of people filling whole sections of their shopping trollies with tins of mackerel (who even eats mackerel?) or chicken breast. People also often seem to be trusting pasta and toilet roll with saving them from coronavirus. A regular fix of spag-bol and bottom wiping must make us all OK.

The spread it’s had to all other areas of life has been stratospheric. The media was at the forefront of getting the Premier League and Football League cancelled once Mikel Arteta was diagnosed with COVID-19 (three Leicester City players were in self-isolation beforehand). To protect players, staff and fans, the main weekend hobby of millions has just been scrapped.

All “non-essential” travel has been warned against based on government advice, including to pubs and restaurants, and cinemas are feeling the effects of it greatly, with films such as No Time to Die and Mulan being postponed for months over virus fears, meaning cinemas are destined for months of emptiness. The hysteria postponed James Bond – and all the fun places to go to with it.

The holiday companies are really going to take a sucker punch. A friend of my father’s, an air host for about 25 years, is fearing for his job, as his firm British Airways are convinced they will have to make several staff redundant. Another, who works for a company selling villas, says his company is losing £1.5 million a week. Yet another manages a company selling outdoor events. It is all looking very bleak.

Already, FlyBe have gone defunct this year (though their struggles meant COVID-19 was the final nail in the coffin), and Dixons Carphone, albeit amidst financial turmoil of their own, have revealed they are to make 2,900 people redundant due to wholesale closures. In Leicester, Apple and Urban Outfitters are among big names to close their doors. London, meanwhile, sees Trafalgar Square, Harrods and much of Central London deserted, as if a zombie apocalypse had descended.

The consequences for business and employment have been and will continue to be catastrophic. Businesses around the country are bracing themselves for a life-or-death few months and many might not survive. Jobs will be lost, as the state may be forced to grow disconcertingly in power to help subsidise for the loss the private sector is experiencing.

It cannot be said in any plainer terms – the world has changed entirely for the worse.

Looking at COVID-19, though, it is impossible to figure out a good reason for this.

That is not to say that we should not be concerned about the coronavirus. 188,167 people have been diagnosed and almost 7,500 have died worldwide* and it is definitely a mega disease.

Let us take a look at China, though. The country which gave birth to the virus has seen 80,881 cases and 3,226 deaths* related to the virus. It has already peaked there, quite some time ago judging by the speed of coronavirus events in Europe. China is a country with a population just shy of 1.4 billion. Less than 0.01% of the population have even had the virus, and far less still have died from it. The same rings true for the UK and most countries which are dealing with it.

The reason so few cases turn to deaths is because only the elderly and those with pre-existing breathing problems are at genuine risk of dying. Many “click-bait” articles came out following the death from coronavirus of a 21-year-old Spanish football coach – but he had pneumonia beforehand. Most people recover from the coronavirus.

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Even among the elderly, the risk of death is below 15%. That is significantly less than half. For all the hysteria’s outreach threatening to, in Nick Ferrari’s words, “stigmatise” an entire group of people, most will actually recover. A 101-year-old Chinese man recovered from coronavirus. Most people, even the geriatrics, do. Those with the pre-existing condition which is most at risk of death, cardiovascular disease, are at 10.5% risk of death. This is a very low figure to get so hyperactive over.

Yet they are being told not to go out for fear that they will get the virus. 14 care homes were shut down to visitors in the North-East due to the fears. There are plans to make the elderly self-isolate for four months. Imagine being elderly yourself, having rheumatism or arthritis or a heart condition and barely being able to stand, and spending most of the week alone in a chair watching re-runs of Only Fools and Horses. The highlight of the week, the thing that brightens up life, will be visits from loved ones or trips out walking or swimming. The government are threatening to take that away and consign these people to abject misery over fears these people might die from the coronavirus. If they are all put in self-isolation “for their own good” by nut jobs who know no better, they might well wish they had it.

The young and middle-aged are not even at great risk from the virus’ effects. Mikel Arteta and Callum Hudson-Odoi, both of whom had coronavirus and whose cases led to the postponement of elite football in England, have immediately started to feel better. To them, it was little more than an ailment which got them a tad under-the-weather.

I generally am cynical of those who blame the media for life’s problems but this time they really are blowing an issue out of proportion. As the media machine churns out more and more stories to cash in on the hysteria, there seems little awareness among people as to how the virus really will affect them.

People are genuinely prepared to go into virtual lock-down for months over the flu. That is just ridiculous. People are going to disrupt their entire lives over heightened risk of catching the flu.

At a first whiff of the virus, elite football was postponed, and viral growth, while quick, has seen even faster responses, as the US and EU locked down their borders and the stock market prepares for a crash even worse than the 2008 financial crisis, all because people cannot brave the flu.

I am no sceptic to the idea it will be painful and I would not wish the coronavirus on anyone but it is a virus, it exists, and it will win eventually, unless people are literally willing to never mix with the outside world again to combat the virus. We know we cannot stop this virus, and maybe the “herd immunity” approach suggested by Sir Patrick Vallance will actually be the sensible option.

Better to go down with a bout of flu than plunge the stock market, the foundation of world economy, and several businesses and jobs into the abyss. I, for one, am not prepared to lose everything over worries about a virus it will take a matter of days, or even hours, to recover from.

That is not the way that the media and Twitter brigade see it, though, with many tweets making clear the absurd extent to which people are hyping up the virus.

As these tweets show, Twitter has been incendiary over the coronavirus. From the endless calls to suspend football, to the endless calls for a school or work walk out, to calls for martial law and China-style containment of the coronavirus.

It is worth noting how in line with this over-reaction on Twitter has been with government policy (though they are always blamed on the app for actually being too laissez-faire over the issue), as more and more public buildings and events face the axe over coronavirus fears.

Italy and Spain have gone into lock-down over the virus and sometimes the UK are urged to follow suit, in spite of the fact that the UK is an island nation and so will have less to fear from the spread than continental Europe due to the English Channel’s fluid barrier. In addition, the UK’s first case came twenty-four hours after Italy’s, yet Italy has seen over 2,100 more deaths and over 25,000 more cases*.

The media has led the charge which has created all this insanity. Who can forget Piers Morgan likening it to a war? We should all be very sure that staying home in pyjamas and watching Netflix is no match for risking aerial suicide to save thousands from having homes bombed, or slogging over thousands of miles of Russian land to meet terrifying tank resistance in Kursk. We are not fighting a war. If anything, we are cowering away.

The media think they are doing the right thing by informing people regularly (constantly) of the coronavirus, making them aware of its reach and effects and its status in the country and world. No one has changed their minds due to coronavirus, though. The panic has not been an effect of genuine fear of catching the virus and dying from it (well, that is, in rational minds). The panic has been a knock-on effect of the panic. The panic buying, holiday withdrawals, university cancellations and cinema closures were all results more of the hysteria and its calls than genuine reasoning about the coronavirus. All the media have really done by incessantly hammering home chaos concerning coronavirus is not inform us more but scare us, and so leave shops bereft of essential supplies due to stupidity.

This is the same stupidity that has told us that the UK would become a “Third World country” after Brexit or that the world is genuinely going to end in a decade due to global warming. Supposed experts fed into the orchestrators of such ill-founded logic which was supposed to change our minds and our ways.

It never did, and neither of those doom-and-gloom prophecies have been proven true. We, rightly, never listened to the “experts” then and we should not now. (To be fair, it is actually the other side who are committing worse offences now, with the Daily Mail and Telegraph having a field day with the scare stories). Nobody has a clue what is going to happen. The coronavirus could last until Spring 2021, but it could also peak in early April. For some reason, we all seem drawn to see things from the worst-case scenario. Especially in times like this, that is highly inappropriate.

The reason why coronavirus hysteria has gained more impetus than that of the same ilk which characterised the “Bremain” campaign and the climate change student strikes is because there is no clear political motive for the crisis calls, and it is of course a public health emergency. When health is brought into the question, even for a fairly low-risk disease such as COVID-19, people are much more prone to jump out of their seats. This is not informed preparation for a crisis. This is stupidity and it will drag this world down.

Compared to SARS which created panic in the early 2000s, the coronavirus is definitely worse, but then we should not be comparing it to SARS just because it was the most recent outbreak of a virus close to home. Why don’t we compare it to influenza? That was one of the deadliest epidemics in human history (which the media and Twitter would have us believe about the coronavirus), with around 500 million getting Spanish flu and at least 17 million dying. That was after the Great War, and hospitals, still very flawed by today’s standards, were dealing with a high overspill of war injuries while influenza made its mark. The people did not stand a chance. We are treating coronavirus as if it has that potency, but in fact the death toll will end up being so far short of that total it will not even be worth comparing the two.

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Image courtesy of Wikimedia Commons: Chinese President Xi Jinping did a tour of coronavirus-hit Wuhan amidst the January outbreak in China

It’s all well and good saying that if the coronavirus ends soon and until then life coming to a standstill seemed like a complete over-reaction, that the right thing was done and we came together to kill a virus. We would all like that, but it’s just not true. By encouraging this doomsday mentality, the oversensitive lunatics calling for a lockdown have thought about nothing else.

The bottom line is that businesses are going to go under and people will lose their jobs if we keep acting like a bull in a china shop, and the stock market will be so crippled that financial prospects afterwards will not look pretty either. The coronavirus will then be a tragedy not just because of illness and death (which is undoubtedly an absolute tragedy) but even worse – because of the sheer number of people affected – the world will be destitute.

Never underestimate the coronavirus. That is not the message. There is no need, though, to make the virus even worse than it already is by making tons of people fear for their livelihoods. It achieves nothing but depression, worry and fear for the future.

If we really are using the war theme, then urgency certainly was important (and it has had more than its fair share of representation in terms of coronavirus coverage).

What was also important was that the mentality to get through a war is not to continuously press panic buttons like a bride whose wedding dress does not fit, but to “Keep Calm and Carry On”, like the film puts it.

That is the exact mentality that should be advised. Drastic action will only prompt more confusion and panic than is at all necessary. At this point in time, what we need is a calm head.

What we definitely do not need is this insanity-driven hysteria, which has turned the world into a Y2K-esque cult. It will, if we let it go on, do far more harm than good. Let’s grow up and take coronavirus in our stride. We can beat it – and we don’t have to end the world to win.

*Figures correct at time of writing

University of Leicester scientists trial groundbreaking new asthma pill

By Bethany Spence

A new asthma drug that is currently in advanced clinical trials, led by scientists at the University of Leicester, may provide a new treatment method after showing promising results.

Being the first new asthma pill to arrive in 20 years, results seem promising although further testing is required before public release.

In the Phase 2 testing both in Leicester and Vancouver, Canada, the new drug Fevipiprant has been shown to reduce the amount of smooth muscle in a patient’s airway linings.

Any increases in this kind of muscle creates a higher chance of irritation, leading to more frequent asthma attacks and in increasingly severe cases, even asthma related deaths.

According to Asthma UK, approximately 5.4 million UK residents are currently being treated for asthma which is about 1 in every 11 people, or 1 in 5 households.

The University of Leicester has been helping to lead the charge for more variety in asthma medications for the last 50 years, creating the third most influential research into  potential treatments in the world.

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Professor Chris Brightling, NIHR BRC Senior Investigator at the University of Leicester and respiratory consultant at Leicester’s Hospitals, said: “Leicester is world-leading in asthma research.

“I think the success of lung research in Leicester is largely due to the fantastic participation of our patients in research together with the close working between the University Hospitals of Leicester NHS Trust and the University of Leicester.”

Dr Pranab Haldar, clinical senior lecturer at the University, added: “I would say that Leicester’s work has led the way to realising the possibility of personalised treatment for patients with asthma.”

 

Valentine’s Day battles break out

By Bethany Spence

Valentine’s Day celebrations came early for members of the De Montfort University laser tag society this week (Mon 11th) with a lively Prom themed night, featuring roses, hide-and-seek heart tag and couples tag team game modes at Megazone Leicester.

With each of the couples/teams decided via their compatibility rating as measured by an online website, many people in the society were teamed with people they had never joined up with before.

One of the most powerful teams featured chairman of the society, Louisa Stratton – otherwise known as Vader – and sharpshooter Henry Smith, best known for his appearance as a laser-wielding Gandalf at the Halloween event.

Each of the teams came dressed to kill in various suits and dresses, leading to a very suave James Bond-like team roster.

“It was a great way to put a spin on our normal Monday night society meetings, it adds a spark of extra fun beyond the usual,” said Miss Stratton.

“We do what we can to change up the weekly formula through added board game socials at Bean Gaming, quiz nights and even playing unconventional battle music in the arena due to the cooperation of the Megazone staff.

“They seem to get as much enjoyment out of watching laser tag battles to the death, punctuated by well-loved Disney songs, as we do!”

 

 

Bean Gaming: Family fun for everyone

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By Bethany Spence

This year saw the city of Leicester welcoming brand new tabletop cafe, Bean Gaming, a cosy haven for board gamers of all ages and skill sets.

After a somewhat rocky start on the crowd funding page, Kickstarter, the cafe turned bar and restaurant, opened its doors and received well deserved 5-star reviews from a wide array of customers.

With over 200 board games from the classics such as Monopoly to the more modern games gracing its shelves, it truly is a place with something for everyone.

At just £2 an hour per person, or £5 for a full day of games (4 hours on weekends, due to demand), customers have access to a full range of games and dedicated space for settling into longer sessions.

The gamers paradise also allows the opportunity to order food and drinks or even alcohol from the on-site restaurants.

To further expand their customer base, the cafe has arranged for a parent and baby group, aptly named the Bean Babies, where families may go along to socialise with others and play games in the child area.

In addition to this group, the cafe runs a regular Dungeons and Dragons group run by experienced players.

The aim is to help perspective Dungeon Masters to construct worlds and to allow people the chance to experience a campaign before ever having to create their own.

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After running their 6-course Valentine’s Day menu and gaming event this week at £40 per couple, the cafe will have dealt with one of the busiest times of year before preparing for potential Easter events in the coming weeks.

Bean Gaming Cafe can be found at 22 Silver Street.